tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12709723.post114538339304167087..comments2024-01-02T06:46:03.449-05:00Comments on Nick's Bytes: Incest: The Crime that Devastates LivesAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16939152657551690867noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12709723.post-1147400757370096072006-05-11T22:25:00.000-04:002006-05-11T22:25:00.000-04:00My wife is a survivor of incest and she did it by ...My wife is a survivor of incest and she did it by going multiple, of course that created a whole new set of problems but it at least enabled her to survive the trauma. Sadly the family still refuses to admit what happened, at least openly. She was told a couple of months ago that one of her uncles told her cousin on his deathbed NINE years ago that uncle bob had abused T ever since her childhood!! He never told T he knew or anyone else, on top of that T's cousin kept it to herself for nine years before telling T. So for the past 50 years she has had self doubts lingering, maybe I did imagine it, maybe I this maybe I that and now she finds confirmation of what happened. This same family knows a son of Uncle Bob is carrying on the family tradition, he raped his younger step brother! No one reported it and when T said it needs to be done the entire family turned on her, again. She is now "divorced" from her blood family because they support the abusers and not the abused. By the way she reported him to the Div of Family Services. In 2006 this exists, maybe we haven't evolved very far at all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12709723.post-1145454524215596622006-04-19T09:48:00.000-04:002006-04-19T09:48:00.000-04:00It amazes me how much of this goes on. I have per...It amazes me how much of this goes on. I have personal friends that have experienced this in their past; which ultimately affected their later years in life. Psychologically it is a crime----with or without legal standings. I don’t understand why anyone would do such a thing. I don’t understand how people cannot see the boundaries that shouldn’t be crossed. That’s just me though. I also don’t understand those who are pedophiles. It puzzles me. What an interesting and sensitive post.Debhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14986475569600734742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12709723.post-1145434866991553652006-04-19T04:21:00.000-04:002006-04-19T04:21:00.000-04:00Thoughtful post nick. I know a girl who was sexual...Thoughtful post nick. I know a girl who was sexually abused by her father. What beats me is that nothing was done about this, and everyone behaved as if nothing has ever happened. The girl is married today and i don't think she's got over the trauma. How she faces her father, rather, how her father can look her in the eye is something i can't even imagine.<BR/><BR/> Another woman in her late sixties was supposedly a victim of incest. She's one of the most troublesome person's i've come across, one who's filled with all sorts of negativities and a terrible self-hatred. Maybe her earlier experiences had this effect on her behaviour, God knows.<BR/><BR/> And it's true that in most cases, it's the girl who suffers. I've rarely come across young boys being handed out this treatment(except, of course in Micheal jackson's case).Vishwahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10212671896677162784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12709723.post-1145421806026507212006-04-19T00:43:00.000-04:002006-04-19T00:43:00.000-04:00It has been going on for a long time.It has been going on for a long time.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12709723.post-1145417714141420102006-04-18T23:35:00.000-04:002006-04-18T23:35:00.000-04:00Not much stuff knots up my stomach; however bro yo...Not much stuff knots up my stomach; however bro you seemed to find something.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12709723.post-1145405594988715762006-04-18T20:13:00.000-04:002006-04-18T20:13:00.000-04:00so many horrible things!! but unfortunately it ex...so many horrible things!! but unfortunately it exists and so it behooves us to be aware of what to do and how to help. It takes so little to destroy the esteem, the confidence and trust of a child. You wish you could spare every single child the anguish of such a horrific act.jay arehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14727631330688339589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12709723.post-1145402040736105282006-04-18T19:14:00.000-04:002006-04-18T19:14:00.000-04:00Excellent post :)I've just ad a case recently wher...Excellent post :)<BR/>I've just ad a case recently where the mother forced her daughter to have sex with the mothers boyfriend, the whole story is quite unbelieveable, i shall post it soon.Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15400006028099229571noreply@blogger.com